no mistake

"You wonder sometimes why you are permitted to make mistakes in your choice when you sought so truly to do My Will in the matter.  To that I say it was no mistake... All your lessons cannot be learned without difficulty, and this was needed to teach you a lesson.  Not to him who walks on, with no obstacles in his way, but to him that overcometh in the promise given.  So to attain peace quickly in your surroundings, as well as in your hearts, learn your lesson quickly.  And the overcoming is never the overcoming of the one who troubled you, but the overcoming of the weaknesses and wrong in your own nature, aroused by such a one." -God Calling

*Gulp*